In Pursuit of Virtue: Men’s views on the Islamic Emirate’s restrictions on women

Martine van Bijlert • AAN Team

Afghanistan Analysts Network

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Since taking power in August 2021, the Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan (IEA) has introduced increasingly severe restrictions on the rights and freedoms of Afghan women and girls, that have reverberated across families and communities. The new rules have bolstered traditional male roles as women’s ‘gatekeepers’, determining what they can and cannot do. At the same time, these laws have also undermined men’s roles as supporters and facilitators of the ambitions of their female family members – in particular their daughters, but also wives and sisters. Overall, they have taken choices away from families, putting more power over Afghans’ personal lives into the hands of the state and its officials. In this report, Martine van Bijlert and the AAN team explore the effects of the restrictions on women as seen through the eyes of men. They explore how the Emirate’s rules have affected family dynamics and the lives of both men and women – not because it is often considered that men are more articulate or because the harm is more pronounced or important when also felt by men, but because the exclusion of women from public life affects everyone. It can disrupt families, fray communities and undermine both men and women. 

 

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The most invasive of the Emirate’s decrees and directives have aimed at pushing women and girls out of the public sphere and confining them to their homes. Girls were banned from secondary, a decision that has been upheld every year since its implementation. Universities were initially reopened to women, under strict conditions, including gender-segregated classrooms and dress codes. This, however, was short-lived and female students were once again barred from universities, in December 2022. The few fields of study still available to women, such as nursing and midwifery, were suddenly suspended in early December 2024, without explanation. Most female government employees were told to stay at home and, in December 2022, NGOs, the United Nations and foreign embassies were told they could no longer employ women (with some exemptions for health and education). Curbs on women’s mobility have also increased, including the closure of beauty salons and prohibitions on women visiting parks, gyms and historic places, participating in sports and travelling without a male relative.

These restrictions, coupled with anxieties over possibly being harassed by enforcers from the Ministry for the Propagation of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice when they leave the home, have taken their toll on Afghan women. They have eroded their independence, diminished their well-being and sense of self and upended their lives. Yet, their struggles do not exist in isolation from the rest of society. The restrictions on their lives have not only harmed or affected women and girls, nor are they the only ones who hold opinions about them. The new rules have implications for men’s lives as well and their views on them are critical to the lives of their female relatives – whether they disagree with the restrictions or support them.

Between June and September 2024, we set out to hear from men across Afghanistan about how the new rules and restrictions had affected their families, their own lives, and their relationships with the people around them. In a series of in-depth and surprisingly candid conversations, seventeen men from diverse backgrounds and locations shared their perspectives on these changes. Some of the men agreed with traditions surrounding women’s mobility and appearance, such as hijab and the need to travel with a mahram. Many, although certainly not all, came from families where women traditionally did not work outside the home. Not all their daughters had gone to school. But all of them, in varying degrees and for their own reasons, were distressed by the most invasive restrictions, in particular the ban on girls’ education. The emotional intensity of their responses, as will be seen from the interviews, was arresting.

Edited by Roxanna Shapour and Kate Clark


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In Pursuit of Virtue: Men’s views on the Islamic Emirate’s restrictions on women